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Will or can this affect my long time health? I don't have a regular girlfriend.

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Question - (19 May 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2012)
A male India age 30-35, *ppa writes:

I am 18 years old.i don't have any girlfriend till now.

i am in a habit of hooking daily , i want to ask that is regular hooking affects our health or not. i tried to control it because i thinks it is affecting my health and i am not been able to concentrate on other things.

if regular hooking does not have any effect on my health, then i want to ask what should be the gap between two successive hooking .

or is too much of hooking does really have any effect on our mind or health.

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A male reader, vppa India +, writes (21 May 2012):

vppa is verified as being by the original poster of the question

yes by hooking i mean mastburation

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2012):

Duckyhelp agony auntIf anything they say it is good for your health but if it is taking over your life then yes it is over doing it.

Go out with friends more and do things to go out the house, play games etc so that you are not bored to the point that is the only thing left to do.

Its not a bad thing, just dont let it take over your life!

Good luck :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2012):

hooking ??are you hooking up with different girls...?

do you mean masturbation?..no big deal. but if you feel your mind is not on other things .. then you are over doing it.

time gap depends on what is psychologically good for you.

if you are able to be in control and carry on other things its fine even if you are doing it everyday . the point is to not be addicted to anything in life . addiction = slavery your mind and body should never be slave to a particular habit. good or bad. too much of anything is harmful.

take up physical activities like swimming/basketball/football/yoga.

and avoid watching porn .not stop , but just avoid..try to look at other things in life. go out and meet people. you may even find a girlfriend. or if not you could stay friends with girls and try to know them.

becoming a slave of masturbation can turn you into a man with aggressive behavior. doing other things and keeping your life balanced will help you build confidence,feel satisfied with life and increase self-worth.

everyday sex with a partner you are in a relationship with is good.

but masturbating all the time is addictive and a time waster.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (19 May 2012):

janniepeg agony auntI think hooking means masturbation. Western psychology says it is healthy to release. Taoists say that you lose your vitality, your nutrients when you release your sperm too much, and that you should eat more red meat to rejuvenate lost nutrients that your body spends time making. I don't think masturbation has anything to do with concentration. If you want to test your hypothesis that masturbation causes problems. Simply don't masturbate for a week to see if you improve in functioning.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (19 May 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntAm sorry but what exactly do you mean by hooking??

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A female reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth India +, writes (19 May 2012):

Foot-In-My-Mouth agony auntHooking? Do you mean masturbating?

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