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writes:There is a girl ,she is used to be very good friend of mine. we both are in same class.she is not committed and neither i am.we chat regularly on our mobile phones when we are at home and regularly in class.But few months earlier she suddenly stopped talking with me. first of all i didn't understand the reason for her behavior. after few days i asked her why she is behaving like this. she replied me by saying that when we both talk ,her friends and classmates always tease her that i am his bf and she didn't like this.so because of this reason she is not talking with me as we used to talk regularly earlier. she is still my friend but now we both fight. i always ask him the reason about what he said to me and every time she will change the question and never reply to my answers.I didn't want to break friendship with her but now she has changed a lot . its been 4 months that she is not talking me regularly and freely as she used to.so whether i should break my friendship with her or give her some time. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Back when I married, I learned this... and I have never veered from it:
When a woman is not talking to you... DON'T INTERRUPT HER!!!!!!
Good luck...
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 I think your friend has decided that she wishes to keep distance from you because of pressure from her friends; so you should respect this.
You can be her friend but not so close as before.
Respect her feelings if you care for her then the fighting will stop also.
goodluck!
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (19 May 2012):
 This happened to me nearly exactly and i had to face that the friendship had ended on her grounds.
The only thing to do is try your best to move on from it and live normally and find happiness in new friends and leave her to it, she may realize in the future but do not hold your breath for such an outcome.
Its a hard truth to face but the best you can do right now is to get into a hobby, gym, meet up with friends to show yourself you can be happy without her.
Good luck :)
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