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After a fight, why does he send texts but won't call me?

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Question - (19 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi

Me and my bf had a fight 3 days back. He kept on treating me very badly and always ignoring me and my calls. I had enough, told him so and stopped calling him.

He didn't call me either. Yesterday he sent a simple 'hi' text. i didn't reply back, today he sent 3 texts, all are some adult jokes which was forwarded from his friends i guess. But he didn't call me.

What should i think of this? Is he expecting me to reply back or call him back? Why cant he call me instead of sending some stupid texts. We are together for 2 years and he often ignores me and calls me when he doesn't have anything else to do. Please help

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A female reader, jbecky7 United States +, writes (20 May 2012):

Hi,it simply means he want you back and he is really sorry and what to say sorry but does not know the way to say. Just wait and see what he's gonna do he will want you to be happy. Don't not go to him he will all the way begging you and continue with your good relationship. And try not to do what will make him to be angry. Bye

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2012):

Stay busy, and carry on working and socialising with your friends. He will come running if he is still into you. He will feel hes losing you when he realises your world doesnt revolve round him.

Heres the deal to have a well rounded relationship both parties need social interaction with their separate set of friends. Then when you do see each other its time for both of you and makes it special. Dont live by being joined at the hip. Being confined can make people feel smothered, and when smothered you need to push the thing smothering you away for a breather. It doesnt mean that its gonna be permanent but you wont want to get smothered again and therefor you will try to add balance. Your balance is to set aside time for other things than just the two of you.

Hope this helps.

Next time he texts hi, text hi back at you, dont elaborate but it leaves an opening for him to ask you how you are. Let him know that youve been busy catching up with friends.

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