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writes:IM 20. Home for the summer from college. Met this girl back in August in a school club (we meet on mondays and have a few parties, thats about the only time i saw her), she was dating someone at the time and i wasnt really into her. She didnt seem to have any real friends in the club but i would talk to her occasionally (she is really shy). She broke up with her boyfriend around october, but i didnt realize how much i liked her till january when we had a class together. Anyway, the semester went by, she sat by me alot and we really started to talk a lot. We found a we had so much in common and i immediately knew she was into me. We were studying for a test one night at her friends house, driving in her car (just us 2) after we left and she started talking about how all her friends are getting married and she was so far away from being married. a few minutes later she invited me to lunch. so of course i went and it went really well. THere were plenty of other hints she gave me, needless to say i am almost 100% sure she really liked me. But here's the bad part. After we ate lunch (about 2/3 through the semester) I never really asked her to hang out because she stop coming to class and never really came to our club meetings anymore (it was a pointless class anyway) so i also stopped going, (except for the tests obviously). But i wanted to ask her to her face, not over text or phone. Anyway i didnt really see her till 2 weeks later the last week of regular school. Our club was having our last meeting and we rented a clubhouse and had a goodbye party. This girl came up to me and we talked for like an hour. A really good flowing conversation. She kept doing the same things i was doing ( like when i touched my arm, she would do the same thing) and really looking into my eyes. But being the puss i am, i didnt ask to hang out. So the next day, i got the balls and i asked her to hang out some time that week via text. she responded that she wanted to, but she was going back to her hometown the next day to study until exams. (class ended the next day)So i didnt say anything again after that until last night (3 weeks later) We're both home from summer. I texted "Hey Morgan! havent talked to you in a while. How have you been?." i its been 24 hours with no reply. I know i was kind of a puss not to ask her earlier in the year to hang out and i may have waited to long. The thing is, we ended on a really good note and its not like her to not reply. So my question is, should i wait another day and try a simple, "hey!" text? or just not do anything else? Either way, ive decided to man up next semester and im taking her out as soon as i get back to college. let me know your thoughts. this girl is really my type and i want to be in a relationship, i just need to man up. Btu I dont understand the no reply thing.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (1 June 2012):
`Maybe you have kept that connection alive but I doubt the girl has. You have to wait till you see her face to face to really decide if she is still into you. If you get no reply until you see her, then do not get your hopes up. I don't mean to sound like a bearer of bad news but your hesitation was not a good call as she made many more initiations than you.
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 Maybe her phone isn't working. Maybe she lost it and now has a new number. Maybe she isn't feeling well. Muster some much needed courage and give her a call. Texts aren't good enough!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 Well I am glad you made an effort and sent her text..now I think u should give it some time and see if she replies to you or not..you don't want to push it too hard,take it slow you have made your move now its her turn to respond..don't rush into things just because you realise you haven't asked her out until now and its getting late..!wait for a couple more days if she doesn't text then u can send another text saying'hey morgan looks like your too busy or your phone doesn't like me too much lol,but I your doing well..take care..
So when u say this u don't sound desperate it looks like ur concerned..so wait for her reply and I am hoping she does,you tried twice if she doesn't then movee on don't wait for someone who can't take few minutes frm their time to reply to you..good luck x
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