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anonymous
writes:He has lost interest in me I know it. He has not called,text emailed me or anything! I am so heart broken thought things were ok between us. We were together almost 7mths. I text him last night because it had been a week and no communication. He said he was "busy' and would call me back but he didn't. I saw his Facebook and he has been going out so I know its over! He said to a friend that I might be too nice and sweet for him. How can a woman be too nice? I won't call or text him anymore because I don't want to look like a stalker but I am so hurt and angry because we had sex and I feel so used. I don't have sex a lot so that is why I guess It hurts so much! Why is he doing this to me? If I am so nice and sweet he should tell me truth right? Hurting sooooo much I cried a little last night when I knew the call was not coming! Help how do I deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): If he can't even tell you it's over or keep you in the picture, is he worth it? Don't get thinking there's something wrong with you. And don't make any more moves. If he does want to contact you it's up to him, and if not, what have you really lost?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): "How can a woman be too nice?"
Easily and far too often. Sounds to me like you wanted very much for him to like you, but you never asked yourself if you liked him in the first place.
A guy's interest in you isn't the end all be all. He's not interested, accept it and move on. Maybe next time, find a guy you instinctively trust and just try to enjoy his company rather than to try to be "nice" to him.
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reader, meg111 +, writes (1 June 2012):
I know exactly what you are going through as I have just been there myself. Some guys are too weak and immature to just tell you they want to break it off, they want to still look good in your eyes. It is very hard but do not contact him anymore. You deserve better.
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