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writes:I am a 34 year old woman, and I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last 11 months. We do like each other's company, we like to go out and enjoy ourselves too. Our sex life is pretty good too. However, although it's been nearly a year together, we never really discussed where this relationship is leading us. We never mentioned any future, although we do tease about not inviting each other to each other's wedding, and we laugh about it. One other thing is that we never said " I love you" to each other, however we do ask each other how much we hate each other..obviously to tease too. I do say to myself that we are letting things to flow naturally...but...I still ask myself.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 Guys don't talk about such things as "where this relationship is leading us."... because that would be sort of like talking about FEELINGS.... and we don't do that...
IF you'd like to strike up a discussion about this topic, then YOU need to sit your B/F down and say: "I want to have a discussion about "where this relationship is leading us." He might not respond very well... but, at least, you will have stirred up some sort of reaction...
Good luck...
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 If you aren't worried, then why worry?
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