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writes:I am a 14 going on 15, and I am falling for a girl that has no clue. I moved to the school th second semester. At first I thought she was very pretty, but she's bipolar, and I was nervous. Eventually, one of my freinds figured it out and she made me start talking to her because they are like best freinds. Well, they started off talking to me about Batman because he is their favorite superhero, and one of mine. Well, eventually she started hanging out with me and I got her phone number. Well, she told me to start calling her "Cookie" that same day, because she is like in love with cookie monster. So when I got home I texted her and said "hey cookie wassup?". Soon we got to talking and she said "haha, funny, i luv u kid"and I told her, "no u don't, thats just sometin people say to be nice"she replied " no i really feel a connection with you"I didn't really know what to say after that so I said, "what do ya mean?"she said, " exactly, idk what it is but..."she never finished it, but i tried to the best of my ability to figure it out. afterwards, we gave each other a person to talk to, we hung out more, but things changed. the more i started hanging out with her the more some of her freinds disliked me, while others just ignored us when i talked to her. in text messages she stared saying stuff like "babe" or "sweetheatt" and she tried to convince her freinds i wasn't the "annoying pervert" that her freinds said i was. they said that because when i was talking to the guys a few of them heard some things out of context, i mean, guys will be guys, but they were the ones telling the details of their "sexual exploits". eventually, she stopped hanging out with me and she started being mean to me. she was mean to me other times anyways, but it was mostly when she hadn't taken her medications for her bipolar disorder. she started saying stuff like "f*** you". and a few times she said it, she found me after school and apologized saying stuff like " you know how my freinds are". eventually she went back to being nice to me, but i had to suffer through watching her flirt with other guys the last 2 and 1/2 months of school.I could never tell if she was just trying to be nice and felt sorry for me because everyone was mean to me, or if she actually liked me.Could someone explain this to me? And could someone that's my age help at all to explain?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): I think the flirtig with other guys was b/c she is a flirt, but when they actually acted upset was when she was more comforting than flirty. According to her both of the guys are her "freinds" ,but one of them is one of my freinds, and he has been with the same girl for a while, but his gf gets extremely jealous, and they fight and he "gets in her pants" after their big fights because she has a hard time staying mad at him, even though she has caught him cheating. And the other was "Cookie"'s ex who left her for a sluttier girl, and when the slut dumped him, she flirted with him for a couple of weeks, but then she just stayed pretty much p****ed at him I think he tried to gran her breasts (stuff like that is what got him sent to alternative school for 3 months).From, The Asker of the Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2012): Its a known fact that guys will never understand girls, its just one of them things, females are one of the great mysteries of the world lol. Its hard to say for certain if her on and off behaviour with you was her mood swings to do with her bi-polar or if she was genuinely being nice to you personally but was just showing off around her friends to meet their expectations. Either way I don't think things would move to relationship stage with her as she doesn't seem to take it seriously , with the flirting with other guys too. Perhaps she was only trying to flirt with you for fun as she does with others? Its only childish high school male/female discovering the opposite sex sort of thing, don't take it to heart so much there's plenty more fish in the sea and plenty of time to go fishing :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 I think she did like you yes, I think she still does but she was getting pressure of her friends because they disliked you, I guess she did not want to become an outsider so she decided she would start being mean to you as well. I am sure her being bipolar never helped much either. I think what you should do is message her and tell her how you feel about her and tell her you like her.
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