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30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why would he do that? I'm so hurt:(?I got back with my ex after a year split. He said he didn't want a relationship.A year later I was still sad and missed him everyday. Here got in contact again and got back together. He told me things would be different(good) this time.I asked if he still loved me he said he likes me a lot and as time goes on he'll fall in love with me again.I asked him to take a few days and think about what he really wants.On day 3 of no contact he texted me asking how I was. I texted back but he didn't reply. Day 4 I texted him asking to tell me if he wants to be with me or not.But he didnt reply. So I guess he doesnt want me them.Why would he do that? He's hurt me again. My heart won't stop hurting I can't even cry:(Hugsxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): "My ex said he'd fall in love with me again but then cut all contact"
Your ex said that hoping it was enough to get you to jump into bed with him again but it wasn't so he then cut all contact.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 he's never going to be what you need or want him to be sweetie...
I'd go no contact and heal as best you can.
take 6 weeks to mourn your loss... eat ice cream and cry and find a girlfriend you can obsess with about him.... write him long long letters about EVERYTHING and seal them and put them away in a drawer for much much MUCH later....
then after 6 weeks... dry your eyes... pull up your big girl panties and get on with life...
I do not think he did it to be mean. I think he did it thinking he could change... he probably cares about you but not at the level you want or need him to.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (28 March 2012):
 I feel your pain, i've been here before many many times.
It's time to move on hun, if you don't he'll just keep on letting you down like my ex did. It's hard, i'm currently doing it, but it can be done. Sometimes i still think about him, but overall i'm feeling really good about things.
Some things just aren't meant to be, save yourself the heartache x
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reader, Spendy +, writes (28 March 2012):
Spendy is verified as being by the original poster of the question He replied hours later saying he's been busy with family problems & haven't thought about us. He said he enjoyed our time together but he doesn't think things can be like before. He thought things would return but it didn't go as planned.:(
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reader, oldbag +, writes (28 March 2012):
 he doesnt wanna be with you and its time you accepted it and let him go If you dont put him behind you you will always be expecting him to make you have a happy ending Do not let him use you again just delete his number and let him go.He didnt tell you he loved you but cos you love him you hope he will want you,but he doesnt
it is not easy but you will get through the heartache when you STOP waiting for him and you will find happiness one day with a new man xxxx
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