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anonymous
writes:Please comment despite the length pls. So I'm not out to everyone that I'm lesbian so at work maybe two people may know. Anyways there's this female that I noticed last month or so who has very beautiful hazel eyes with a nice creamy skin complexion. Last month this female came up to me as I was outside n wanted to ask me a personal question. I told her okay, go for it what's the question. She then says well, but I don't know if I should ask. And I said ask anything. She replied I don't want to upset u if. Then I said its cool. She then begin to hint at her question being sexually related but still without asking the question. So after that she says, well never mind. So I completely forgot about it as time went on. One day earlier this month I saw her walking and she stopped to say something to me and I asked are those contacts. She responded with a no these are the natural color and thank you for the compliment. Since then she's been behaving very different. Example 1... She would say she's about to leave n I say why and then she said u want me to stay so we can sit and make googlie eyes at one another. Example 2.... She asks me what am I doing after work and may every effort to pass by me and get my attention to Exchange eye contact at work. Example 3.... She asks me if she sees me before work can I sit with her while she eats. She likes to get very close to me to bump into me or brush me. As we ate lunch together we both finished n I took mines to the kitchen n she was already in the kitchen to get a smoke break and she said to me as I carried my dishes I could have carried hers too. She seems pretty cool but I'm not sure why my sexual orientation matters. In fact, she hints at being interested in females as far as I can see and if she doesn't go that way why bother asking especially if she only wants friendship. It gets crazy bc she often involves her vagina when we could be talking about work. Or she frequently stops herself from making sexual comments when I say something non sexual in content. Does she want pure friendship? Or something more?
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reader, lover06 +, writes (1 April 2012):
i hear you , yea no 3somes thats not a good idea well i say dont get emotionally involoved .May be she is bi and wants to have fun . I have a friend like that, that how we met. thou i was up front that no guys and no threesome i like you and yes want to have fun with you just cant have your boyfriend in it. she was cool and so was her boyfriend but then i stop, it gets weird after a while. so if you think you can handle it go for it , if not, then you know what you should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I just found out that this lady has a boyfriend. So why did she give me her number and sticks her tongue out at me in a provocative way. She even invited me to her new place. Not too sure about her, although she's beautiful I think her and her boyfriend are swingers or maybe he likes 3 somes. I'm a bit traditional and lesbian so a guy would put me off sexually. Newayz I'm so not sure now of her motive. Not sure where to begin asking questions. Tonight she gave me a full body embrace as couples do intimately. I really like her, met her guy he's sexy too but don't want the package, just her.
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reader, lover06 +, writes (30 March 2012):
she is giving you all the possible hint dude. she asked to make sure she was barking on the right tree, since you havent done anyting. girl if you want to be sure ask her right on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): I would be over the skies and the moons and the stars if someone acted like that with me. It's clear as day that she's into you. Everything you said point that way. If you're into her too, I say you should flirt back with her but don't go rushing because she really seems like she enjoys the flirting. From there, see where things go.
Good luck and like I said, you're very lucky to have someone so obvious and blatant that she likes you. I'd be overjoyed if the girls who liked me were more blatant about it!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 Come on!! take the hint!
She is clearly interested in you as more than a friend and is trying to be respectful and not push you too hard, spend some time with her and get to know her you never know what you might find.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): You're right to be cautious.
She may be flirting with the "danger" ... she may just be curious. It's difficult to judge.
Don't approach her in any way about a relationship during work time. Do the two of you ever meet outside of work? Do you share any interests?
Why not invite her to come along with you and some of your friends to a night out ... that way you will have your support network around you and they'll be able to let you know what they think of her behaviour.
Good luck.
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reader, eek +, writes (28 March 2012):
 does she have to make it more obvious? From what you have said she is interested but cant say it so she is dropping hints. Be her friend suggest meeting out of work and see if your relationship progresses beyond friendship.
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