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I need insight as to my feelings about my ex!

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Question - (28 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, *armer bob writes:

Hey, I'm 21 and will be turning 22 this year, so I know I'm young yet. However, I never dated until I met my high school sweetheart. WE did everything together and had all the same friends, all the same morals, and beliefs. Our only problem was after dating a few years we started to argue alot, stupid arguments that shouldn't matter. Anyways in her household she is never wrong and she is the princess, so she couldn't take the fighting and broke up with me. I tried desperately to get her back but she wanted no part of me. After 8-9 months I found someone new and started to date. When my ex found out she very sneaky came back and wanted to date/be friends but insisted it was up to me. So I did. We talked alot out and she claimed I was always on her mind she never stopped loving me. Well 6 months later she breaks up with me again because we were still fighting. Everyone in my family loved her so much. But now she has totally cut me and my family out of her life and has started to drink in an attempt to fit in with people. I'm hoping she is sticking with her other moral but idk anymore. Not sure what to do or what to think. The worse thing is I see her alot because we live so close, have the same friends or alt least did, and both belong to the Alumni group. I don't ever want to get back together with her again after all she has done, but yet when i see her I kinda freeze up and feel funner and just dont know how to act. Any insight please

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A male reader, Cole Turner Australia +, writes (29 March 2012):

Cole Turner agony auntBeing friends or at least civil is important, but you have to move in terms of your relationship as she is holding you back!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (28 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntShe is no longer your problem... she is your ex

you smile say "hi how are you" and keep moving...

in other words you treat her civilly nothing more....

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