A
male
age
30-35,
*armer bob
writes: Hey, I'm 21 and will be turning 22 this year, so I know I'm young yet. However, I never dated until I met my high school sweetheart. WE did everything together and had all the same friends, all the same morals, and beliefs. Our only problem was after dating a few years we started to argue alot, stupid arguments that shouldn't matter. Anyways in her household she is never wrong and she is the princess, so she couldn't take the fighting and broke up with me. I tried desperately to get her back but she wanted no part of me. After 8-9 months I found someone new and started to date. When my ex found out she very sneaky came back and wanted to date/be friends but insisted it was up to me. So I did. We talked alot out and she claimed I was always on her mind she never stopped loving me. Well 6 months later she breaks up with me again because we were still fighting. Everyone in my family loved her so much. But now she has totally cut me and my family out of her life and has started to drink in an attempt to fit in with people. I'm hoping she is sticking with her other moral but idk anymore. Not sure what to do or what to think. The worse thing is I see her alot because we live so close, have the same friends or alt least did, and both belong to the Alumni group. I don't ever want to get back together with her again after all she has done, but yet when i see her I kinda freeze up and feel funner and just dont know how to act. Any insight please
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reader, Cole Turner +, writes (29 March 2012):
Being friends or at least civil is important, but you have to move in terms of your relationship as she is holding you back!
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 March 2012):
She is no longer your problem... she is your ex
you smile say "hi how are you" and keep moving...
in other words you treat her civilly nothing more....
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