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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am 16 years old and bi. My ex best friend was dating this girl, and this girl decided to break up with her to date me. We dated for three weeks and then she decided that she wanted to go back to my ex best friend. This caused a bunch of drama, which is I call my best friend my EX best friend now. Anyway my ex girlfriend recently entered my life again because she claimes she still cares for me because we had something at once. I asked her if she was over me and she did avoid it about two times by saying "I am with ___ , so I have to be" then finally she said "Yeah...I'm over you" She promised to that. She then said, "Why are you doing this? Why do you want to know?" It may just be me, but I really feel like there is something she isn't tell me. This is the third time she has come back into my life. She said she does not know why she keeps coming back (We got in a fight is why she kept leaving. We have been texting non-stop literally since Sunday, and now it is Tuesday. She finds ways to text me if she has no service on her phone, she'll text me while working, she will text me while driving, even though I have told her she shouldn't. To wrap this up, what do you guys think? Is she really over me? I know she is dating my ex bestfriend and says she loves her in all, but I just need help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): Yes, she is over you. You should be over her too. Forget her. Turn your back on both of them and move on.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 The best thing is to remove yourself from the situation by not speaking to either of them, they clearly both cause drama and you dont want that in your life. Move on find new friends and new girls to date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): You should break all ties with this ex best friend as well as ex girlfriend. Remember she is an ex for a reason and besides if u let her continue to come n go in your life as she pleads then she will see u as desperate and know you're lonely enough and won't object to her coming and going. And also its too much drama and she just want to cause problems by playing with emotions. She should have been direct when u first asked are you over me. Now she's feeling like you two really had something. Believe me dear she is only saying that bc she is having issues with her relationship and once they're on good terms again she will flee from u again saying its over. You deserve more. Move on and block her and tell her u want her out of your life. For future sake never date your best friend ex.
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