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*ngeleena
writes:hey all,so I got abit of a problem here. I used to date a guy online like 4 years ago. we met once,had a great time but that was that. I really used to like him then and he told me he liked me too. But then we lost contact. We lived in two different countries and being in contact was so difficult as we both lived in some remote areas(no mobile network etc). after him,I had a realtionship with this guy which was all so great at first but then things got twisted and we ended it after dating for 3 years. now the previous guy is here again. he added me on facebook. i wasn't quite sure whether or not to accept him but then i did eventually. we talked online. he asked for my skype id and we even video chatted. he has asked me to meet him when I go back to my country which is a few months away. His every actions tell me that he likes me but i am not so sure about myself. should I give myself a chance with this guy again or should I just ignore? I don't want to get hurt again. please help!
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reader, angeleena +, writes (29 March 2012):
angeleena is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you both for your answers. i guess i needed this reality check. :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 March 2012):
 he's an online friend nothing more... feel free to be friends with him... but do not pin your hopes and dreams on this as a relationship....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): Oh please! Grow up. What do you mean you "dated online" - for a start you truly have no idea who you are "speaking" to when you are online! You met once and had a nice time - big deal. The fact is you don't know this person at all because online a person can tell you anything about themselves and you have no way of verifying it.
Keep your relationships in the real world and, I'm not saying won't get hurt, but you'll certainly stand a better chance of having a successful relationship.
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