Please help me with this crazy relationship..

A female age 26-29, *oreverFlicka writes:

So I'm dating a guy and he is so wonderful and sweet and i love him so much! well at least sometimes he is wonderful.. He suffers from ocd, depression and i don't know what else. he also lies about stupid little things for no reason sometimes big things too. its been over nine months i know i love this guy i love him more than anything but i found out around six months that he cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship. it was really hard and i was so hurt but i love him so much and the way he broke down about it i knew he was sorry and forgave him. at that point his depression and ocd wasn't so bad. i went with him to the doctor and he started taking acne pills and prozzak. but he only got worse. he started getting really depressed and over emotional and we fought quite a bit. then he stopped the pills and he is terrible now! he can't speak properly sometimes get angry everyday and talks about how death feels like the only escape for him! he told me the truth about a lot of lies that he didn't mean to tell and he hurt me a lot, and sometimes i don't know if what he is telling me is true. he says he loves me but he feels like he doesn't actually know if he loves me or not and this confuses and hurts me.. he feels like he has to tell me everything now that he can't keep anything to himself he tells me every time he looks at another girls ass or boobs every time he jerks off and what he jerks off to. he doesn't know what is true in his head and says sometimes he thinks to himself that I'm ugly and fat but he knows that isn't true and it hurts me a lot to hear him say those things. i know its not his fault. he gets angry over nothing then we fight.. and he looks at people a lot and thinks about how hot they are and he wants to fuck them and HAS to tell me about it.. is it normal for him to think those things about other people? he looks at guys too and sometimes finds them attractive and he told me there no way he is bi or gay and if he is he will oil himself. he looks at little kids too but he doesn't know if its sexual or not. i don't know what to do anymore! he is sick and won't talk to a doctor but i am making him talk to a councillor but he doesn't get to go very often maybe once every other week. he has gone once we had to wait a long time for the appointment i am going with him on tuesday because she asked me to come with him. i want to help him! i can't even leave him knowing how he is knowing that nobody else will take care of him he is my baby! his parents treat him like shit he works two jobs and is so stressed out and upset all the time he worries me so much i can't live like this! i try talking to him but its hard i can't fix anything :( help..

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