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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have recently met this girl in the past few weeks where I have started to work, we've hit it off instantly exchanging numbers and emails etc. We have since been in contact constantly and a few comments she makes I did question whether or not she was bisexual.She has said shes fed up with men treating her badly and talking to another of her friends that is a lesbian was discussing her options. So I asked her whether she was curious and she said she was but her friends wouldnt approve. I have been flirting with her and I asked her out but shes said shes so confused at the moment. I dont mind giving her time to sort out her issues but what can I do to help her? I never went through this stage of 'am I?' 'aren't I?' so I cant use personal experience. I just dont want her to worry about what people will think and know that being bisexual is ok. Please help!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (31 July 2012):
 The best way you can help her is by being there for her if she needs you, listening to her when she needs to talk.
I really don't think she is the girl you want to date at the moment, she needs to find out who she is and what she wants and then have to time to come to terms with that.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 July 2012):
 There is not much that you can do for her. She is questioning her sexuality at the moment, but my guess is she is doing this because she has been hurt from men, lots of people get curious now and again but that does not mean she is bisexual so you must remember that. Yes by all means be there for her as a friend, tell her she should listen to her own head and not worry about what other people will think as it is her life. But that is about all you can do for her. Also just be careful not to get to caught up with her or you may end up being hurt.
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