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I like him but am unsure if he's gay and wonder if I'm misreading his body language?

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Question - (30 July 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm unsure if this guy in my welsh class likes me, the truth is I'm 15 and Gay nobody knows so it makes it harder for me to be able to bite the bullet with this situation.

I think he's rather good looking and I've always seemed to talk to him without really hanging out like friends and I may be good in judging his body language which seems to read he likes me too and when we talk I feel like we flirt a lot but he hangs out with the obviously straight guys but he doesn't seem to talk to me about women but I feel like I'm starting to get more and more close to him but I dont want to end up dissapointed to the fact he turns out to be straight and I was only a friend after all.

To be precise he seems slightly shy to me but he seems to give me direct eyecontact and I feel we stare at each other with deep eye contact in a flirtatious way he seems to laugh flirtatiously at the smallest joke and talk to me when I'm alone and we never seem to run out of things to talk about. Am I just reading him wrongly ar does he really like me? An if he does what do I do to confront him? Help

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A male reader, Biffo Ireland +, writes (1 September 2012):

I'd try to arrange to meet up with him after school. Say something like "I really want to see that new film at the cinema. You fancy coming with me" or arrange to go to the swimming pool. Make it look cool and not contrived and if he says "No" and gives you ANY excuse then he's straight because if he was gay and fancied you he'd be happy to go anywhere with you after school. Best of luck!

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2012):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntdo you spend any time with him ouside of school?

if not try to set that up and see where it goes from there...

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