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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hello there guys im so confused right now because i recently liked a girl and then just stopped suddenly. this is not my problem. my problem is that now im starting to think i will never fall in love with a girl and i really want to and have children and a real life, so now im convincing my self im gay. i sometimes watch gay porn and i like the look of some guys bodys and things but it grosses me out to think of two guys in a relationship or kissing. but i want to do things with my friends so please help!
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (31 July 2012):
 Sometimes we lose interest in a person we thought we wanted to be wth because we realize we don't have alot in common, or you get to know them and realize yo aren't that attracted to them anymore. It doesn't mean your gay. It means that girl wasn't riht for you. Marriages have been known to fall apart because one party falls out of love. It has nothing to do with being gay or not being gay. Right now you're young and you are still trying to define what you want and who you click with. Lust fades. Passion fades. So you really have to find a girl that you enjoy hanging out with, talking to, and getting to know. You watch gay porn because you're curious. The fact that you are grossed out shows you are not gay. So quit focusing so much on that, and just try to figure out what kind of girl you do want. Just don't rush it. You have lots of time.
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