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anonymous
writes: We are identical twins and the guys we are with (4 months) are identical twins and we only just found out because we hadn't met each other's boyfriends before and I'm not sure what we all think of it. It's a bit strange. What should we do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chigirl +, writes (30 July 2012):
What should you do? Well you need to laugh about it and have a good sense of humour. People will comment I am sure, and you'll get a bit more attention if you go out on double dates. Double attention, haha. See? Prepare yourselves for lame jokes like that. Get thick skinned. Just laugh it away and carry on as normal.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 July 2012):
I've heard of this...
of course the closest I have is I know one couple who is married and her sister is married to his brother... so the kids are double cousins.... but they are not twins.
how do you and your sister not know who each other's boyfriends are???
don't the brothers talk too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): It is not weird, just uncommon. Just don't get them mixed up and draw bounderies clear and you'll be fine. Also keep in mind that the twins are probably as close to one another as you are to your twin. So don't do or say anything you don't want their entire family to know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): I don't think its weird. When me and my sister were younger (like teenagers) I used to date a girl and my sister used to date her brother.
All I will say in your situation is you all need to try not to get confused with on another :P lol that could be disastrous.
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reader, Abella +, writes (30 July 2012):
It is not uncommon at all.
I have heard of this happening several times.
In the 19th century it was not uncommon for more than one sister in a family to marry into another family where the spouse belonged to family A in more than once instance and the persons they marriage belonged (all of the persons) to family B.
Meaning that all the cousins shared the same grandparents.
Nothing wrong with that at all.
Just continue to enjoy each other's company
It is All OK.
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reader, Leykis101 +, writes (30 July 2012):
No I have 3 friends or should i say sets of friends, who are all twins, it's not weird at all, it's pretty cool, but the one set of my friends who dated twin girls, ended in one thing, and id watch out for it, the guys eventually trying to get you two to switch up, I don't know them, they could be different, but that's where my friends went with it, and the girls, not so much, they got dumped the same exact day, LOL, I assure you if they ever date twins again, they will try it again, good luck, have fun, wouldn't that be a trip if you actually married them, and had kids?? damn, now that Ive never seen, take care.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (30 July 2012):
Highly unlikely, but stranger things have happened.
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reader, token +, writes (30 July 2012):
im an identical twin and i my brother and i dated identical twin. nothing weird at all...all four of you are different people. nothing wrong with that
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (30 July 2012):
HI
Its very strange that none of you were aware of this, but other than that so what, your all free to see eachother, you all have the same tatse in the person you chose, just make sure no one gets mixed up lol hope it all works out for you.
Mandy x
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