A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I started sleeping and intimately hanging out with a girl i've known for some time now. I really like her and when we're together she seems to be enjoying my company. I am concerned however as this is my first fully sexual relationship and I'm aware that I find it easy to fall for someone so I'm trying to be sensible.However, my housemate and her work colleague seem to be flirting. She is always looking at him (especially as he's a very physically fit guy and is always showing it off) and they laugh and talk all the time. Now I'm sleeping with her she doesn't seem to talk to me in the same flirty way and hardly makes eye contact when that is all i want to do. She does however seem keen when I ask if I can come round and she invited me back to hers for the night again after a night out.I'm trying to not get too serious about the matter and am telling myself if there is a good looking guy then she will look at him and flirt no matter what but am I letting myself in for a fall?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): Sounds like you don't trust her! Shouldn't be sleeping with someone you don't trust, the lack of trust will only grow and grow and get worse.
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