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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone. I have a question about online dating. This is my first time trying it. I met a guy on a dating site and we messaged back and forth for about a month before meeting in person for coffee. The coffee meetup was nothing special but nothing horrible either. He was the first one to reach out afterwards and keep the ball rolling so to speak. But he didn't mention anything about going out again and I didn't see the point in continuing to message, I wanted to meet again and see if the chemistry is there. So I asked him out and he agreed to it. But right now he's on a business trip so meeting up isn't possible until he gets back. While he's on his trip, he has written to me a few times. But he hasn't written back in 2 days even though I see him online. He hasn't bothered to read my message or anything. I'm wondering if that means he's not interested anymore or if i'm overthinking and just to see how it plays out or what. Any ideas?Thanks in advance!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 July 2012):
 Interest has to develop. Some are like love at first sight, some takes time. In this case he doesn't want to plunge into anything perhaps because he will be away lot. You are not too crazy about him either. There is nothing binding you to him so you are free to talk to other guys until he wants a monogamous relationship with you. You also have to consider if you want a man who goes on business trips often because men who are too busy would not want to settle down into a relationship. They are mainly dating women to fill up their time.
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