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writes:I would love to hear peoples, especially guys, opinion on this. Should a guy date/sleep with his friends ex girlfriend? There's a guy I know, we recently met up to catch up and hear how things are. As we talked he started telling me this story, which I found hard to believe guys would do to each other and still stay friends.There's three guy friends, and one girls who's been with all of them! It started out with her being my friends girlfriend. Then they broke up, and next thing she's sleeping with his friend! These guys live together (student house) so the hook-ups weren't exactly discrete. Yet they continued to live together and be friends..? Then, after she was done sleeping with the friend, she moved on to have a semi-relationship with the third friend, also living in the same house! I had noticed that she had been flirting with other guys as well, basically any guy that was a friend of this first boyfriend of hers. Maybe she was trying to make him jealous.. I don't know. But what I'm curious to hear is why did these guys did this to each other? Isn't there a bro-code about not dating your friends ex? And when that code is broken.. do guys really stay friends? Or is there are shortage of women and guys are okay with sharing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2012): She was in a committed relationship with one of them BEFORE she slept with the others. See if any of those guys will ever commit to her again now. Not bloody likely.
(And if one of those guys ever does get serious with her, he will be quietly MISERABLE about her past trysts with his friends for the rest of his time with her. Trust in that.)
The rules have not changed. It's just that the full rules never applied to casual sex partners, they only apply to GF material.
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