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anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and everything in our relationship is really good still. Although lately, for some strange reason, the thought of another girl talking to my boyfriend and complimenting him excites me. I'd absolutely love another girl to message him or flirt with him so I'll become jealous. I've even gone as far as imagining it all in my head and planning on what I'd say to the girl who spoke to him. I don't know what's wrong with me or why I'm feeling like this. Is this normal? Is this the reason why people turn to having threesomes in relationships and marriages?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): Hi thereIt is normal to some degree. Perhaps in a way you are seeking other female approval for your boyfriend so that you know that you are with someone desired by others.By saying that you would become jealous if he flirted with a woman though, suggests that you would not be happy if this did occur. You say you imagine yourself saying something to this imaginary girl. Due to this I would say that you don't want a anything to actually happen in any way, so please don't encourage that. Rather, seek to understand why you are thinking this. People do have threesomes and seem happy with this arrangement. However,I suspect you wouldn't be happy if you explored this route.If it is that you are seeking other female's approval of your boyfriend, I would ask you "why". If you are happy with him as you say, what does anyone else's opinion matter?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): Yes, this is normal in many relationships. My girlfriend and I have also had this feelings, especially since we're both incredibly sexually adventurous and open. We've actually explored our lustful desires, and it was an amazing and stimulating experience. I'm into the cuckload experience, where it turns me on thinking of another man having sex with my girlfriend, alone, and then she comes home to have sex with me, while she's still wet and smells like recent sex. I love the taste and feeling. It's raw and dirty. She likes the thought of me having sex with another woman, either with her, or on my own. We've also been in numerous threesomes, and swung with other couples. If the trust is there, you'll enjoy it a lot.
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