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writes:I'm obsessed with this woman i met(im in freshman university). We were both MCs(hosts) for a large concert/show, but i did not know her before the show. She was a much more experienced MC(with a university degree and MCed a lot of big shows) than I was and encouraged me a lot throughout the show. During the performances(backstage), we chatted and I found out that she was in her late twenties and was already married (though she looked to be in her early 20s, i was kind of shocked because she looked stunning) and I told her my age. While we were not on stage and standing, she would always lean towards me until the side of her body completely touches my side; I felt a bit awkward but also in a good way. After the show she told me that my voice was very good and i must go to her private classes. And after we said goodbye I saw her staring at me twice, but every time when I looked back she would look down or look away. What you think should I keep the fantasy a fantasy or should I take things to the next level? i mean she has so much more life experience than I have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHonestly, I'm just Lusting over her(sexually) because she has such a stunning face(babyface), it's like the perfect 10/10face and physique for me and a warm personality. Should I still go to her class with this kind of mind set. I mean obviously I will not make any moves since she's already married but what if she make the moves when I attend her class? Because rich now I feel kind of shy and weird going to her class thinking about her this way. maybe I should get rid of this mindset altoghether and just be professional...but it's hard with such a stunning 10/10 woman in front of me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Annonymous female reader, I agree with you as in she sees potential in me to be a future host for performances. Since initially I was only suppose to be going up twice(once in the start, once at the end) but she insisted, after my opening, to go up with her throughout the show as "practice" she called it. Plus she commented I had a great voice for shoe host. So you certainly right that her intention is partially for money gain, and partially for the fact that she sees potential in me. Correct? romantic is total nonsense, as she is very mature and married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2012): She didn't pull her hand away because she was in stage/show mode. She corrected your misinterpretation of her outstretched hand by telling you to hand her a mic.
I think she sees potential in you for future emcee opportunities and nothing more. By taking her classes, you can learn how to more appropriately judge nonverbal cues that will be useful if you choose to continue taking public appearance roles.
She is a business woman. I do not think she is romantically interested in you, but is simply using her sex appeal to further her business opportunities. Do not pursue her romantically. It will ruin any potential gain you may have had by working with her in the future.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (31 July 2012):
She's married. That is an instant no-go. Keep it a fantasy, and nothing more.
Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou mentioned the use of touch. During back stage, She held out her hand as a sign for me to give her a microphone, and I misread the message and touch/grabbed the hand she held out altogether(I was nervous about wrapping up the show), but she did not pull her hand back immediately instead she said"pass me a mic". I'm not sure if this is relevant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer classes are legit as she has rented her own studio, and I have seen her students whom are mostly teenage girls(14-16). Also she has one young kid. What about the age difference it's 10+ years: I don't know how the relationship(non-romantic) can work because she did comment on the fact that I looked a lot younger
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2012): You can use touch to control another person. By touching someone on the hand or arm, side or back during certain conversations or in certain situations, the person being touched can be influenced by the person touching them to agree and/or act positively. Touch make most people trust and/or like another person...especially when the two people interracting are different genders like in your situation.
She has learned how to manipulate and control other people. How much money does it cost to attend her 'private' lessons? Could her motivation be greed and is she using her sex appeal to make a quick paycheck from you or does she genuinely seem legit and does she have other students who can verify that they have learned from her?
Since she is married, do not attempt to pursue her romantically.
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