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writes:Hello Aunts, im in a LDR situation. for about a one year now. but we known each other for two years. wemet in singapore when he had a vacation.. so he lived 2760.56 miles apart. we talked on phone eveyday and skype. last night when we video call. it seems his not interested talking to me hes watching tv than talk to me, so basically his attention his not with me.his focus its on tv and waching youtube than talkto me and sometimes i want be affectionate when he used to do before saying sweet words on cam. and now i ask him about that topic and he so sarcasm when he anwer back. so i was felt grump and iritated because he act like that. am i demanding that much? or am i selfish? is it normal to act like this.. how will i talk to him and explain that i need him to focus on me and get his attention when im talking instead he focus on diferent things Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (31 July 2012):
 Maybe you need to turn off your web cam and go outside where you might meet people who are more interested in talking with you than watching TV or You Tube.
His behaviour is rude and impolite. If he doesn't want to talk to you he should, politely, say so. To let you sit there waiting to talk while he watches TV tells me he is a rude boring man.
So, as I said, turn off the web cam and go find somebody who you can talk with face to face, and who wont treat you with such disdain.
Good luck!
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