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writes:Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up? I've been sleeping with possibly my best friend of the last 6months for a week or so and we've been hanging out and snuggling in bed etc. I asked her if she wanted to do a proper date thing and she said yes although it has so far been postponed.However, I'm almost sure that she is interested in another work colleague who is also my house mate so whenever we're around she stares at him out the corner of her eye and does the whole subconscious flirty thing but seems to ignore me. Is there a chance she's still into me and shy/making me jealous or is the probable honest truth she's not really into me?I'nm really into this girl to the point where she's all i think about - Should I accept that she's not interested and move on, try to get back to being friends or should I pursue? If pursue what should I do?Many thanks in advance
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reader, Blondyking  +, writes (1 August 2012):
It's just like BondGirl said first, how many times has this proper date been postponed by her? If she wanted to go out she'd make it happen right away unless something big really happened or was happening. It's not fair to yourself to stand their twiddling your fingers waiting for her to actually decide she wants to go out.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (31 July 2012):
 How many times have you asked her on a proper date and been turned down? I would ask her if she's interested in dating you or if she's interested in someone else. In the meantime, stop sleeping with her. You're just making the situation more confusing when you sleep with her. If she's interested in a workmate, why would you even continue sleeping with her? Kind of an insult to you, don't you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2012): She looks at him, but she is sleeping with you and has told you that she wants to go on a real date.If you want her to be your girlfriend then ask her. As it is your driving yourself crazy with all this, she wouldn't be sleeping with you and saying she wants to go on a real date if she actually wanted your house mate. I get the feeling that you want a guarantee that she will say yes to being your girlfriend before you ask her. Fact is sweetie, your not going to get any guarantees in this, it is a risk, what you need to decide is whether you really believe this girl is worth the risk of getting hurt or not. Good Luck.
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