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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been texting a guy for several months now. We have met 3 times. Anyway his texts are not consistent. He will text me every few weeks and will only ask to meet when he is out drinking. I text him back the other day, got one text back to which I replied and to date I have heard nothing. I am fed up of this never ending cycle of always waiting for him to text etc. If he texts me again, which I doubt, shall I just ignore him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2012): Just don't bother with him. Do not respond to any of his texts. You obviously would like something to develop with him, but it seems very unlikely and he is being rather mean to you I think. So no, forget him.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 February 2012):
 A guy who really wants to see you will make plans and be consistent in his behavior. This guy is just cultivating booty call, I suspect. Especially as he only hits you up when he's been drinking. Maybe he has an alcohol issue and only feels social when he's drunk? Pass!
I'd just ignore him from now on. Good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Why in the world would you think that having a relationship via text message is a good idea?
texts are not reliable and don't always go through and are often misunderstood.
but that's beside the point.
the point is this: "He will text me every few weeks and will only ask to meet when he is out drinking."
he is NOT into you honey you are just a warm body when he's drinking...
move on.... NEXT!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Do you need any more proof that this guy is one of those "Liquor Letharios" who only contacts you when he's experiencing the fortitude of alcohol????
Good luck with your NEXT boyfriend...
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (16 February 2012):
Yes ignore him. He is not behaving like someone who`s genuinely interested in you is he?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (16 February 2012):
 How come you're doing all this texting?? What's wrong with the phone??? Texting is useful if you have an emergency and can't meet, as arranged, for instance, or a quick message to confirm when and where you'll be meeting. Brief messages sort of thing.
As a means of conversation and getting to know someone; well, it just isn't.
Anyway, do you really want to get more closely involved with a man who only texts you when out drinking and that very rarely?
It's up to you.
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