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writes:So i think im going a little over board with this, it started out at christmas time. i got him a few gifts he said thank you and that was it he gave me nothing in return i was hurt but at least got a thank you so i got over it, now valentines just passed and once again i got him a few things but he didnt get me anything not even a thank you this time, i dont care that he didnt get me anything but im hurt at the fact that he didnt even say thank you, he didnt even tell me happy valentines day like i said to him several times not to mention he didnt even come see me!... Now my birthday is in two weeks and he hasnt even asked when my birthday is i dont think he even remembers! we have been together for two years and he has never done this to me before! not to mention im 36 weeks pregnant with his child, could it be im just being emotional? or does anyone else think this is messed up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers, thats what i think, i dont care that i didnt get anything back but a thank you would of been appreciated. Thank you guys! :)
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (17 February 2012):
 Relationships are two way streets. This guy doesnt seem to understand that. He shouldnt just take. V day is a BS holiday anyway however if u got him something he should return it too. Thats just protocol.
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reader, landomando +, writes (17 February 2012):
sounds like a runner....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 February 2012):
 I think he is a tool! One thing is not taking V-day serious ( I don't have a problem with that,except he could at least say thank you) but you got him Christmas presents and all you got back was a thank you? Even if he went out and got you a little something, even late at that, would have been forgivable, but a pathetic thank you? Kind of show a lack of care to me.
I don't think I would expect a present for the birthday.
Is it over? I don't know. Do you intend to just suck it all up or how about talking to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2012): He has a pattern of being a senseless idiot. Two years and he can't put forth the effor to show you love, kindness, thoughtfulness, appreciation?Its not just you and your pregnancy.And you should be unhappy with being with an insensitive creep.I say, stop buying him things and pampering. If he doesn't put the effort into it, then don't you. He'll notice and complain or won't care.Bottom line, you want romance and consideration- you find someone who will fulfill this for you. Don't settle.It may seem easy for me to say, but you have a child and if you are this unhappy and feeling neglected, it will not improve.Get couples counselling to address your concerns. IF he refuses- not worth your time.Sometimes tough love and standing up for yourself may be just enough of a wake up call to a clueless man.
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