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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together around 3 months. He's been wanting to do doggy style for a while, but when we tried it was extremely painful and tugged on the bit of skin between my vagina and anus.Furthermore, my vagina seems to get very tight in that position, so tight he can hardly penetrate me.Is there any advice? He's much taller than me so we've tried him position a little lower but it didn't help much. Any more ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2012): Bring your butt UP more and maybe put a couple of pillows each under your knees. See if that will be better!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Don't do doggy style unless you are wet and ready. And make he needs to try not to "pump" til everything is well lubricated.
Lube can also help.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Sounds like you're not fully aroused. You probably need more foreplay. I also recommend you not jump right into doggy, you should start in an "easier" (I mean easier in the sense that it's less likely to tug) position like missionary to get things going, then flip over and try it then. It's much easier when there's already a bit of natural "lube" on him than starting dry. Also buy some decent lube, all couples should have some around for times like that.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (16 February 2012):
 When doing it doggy style, you BF is reaching full penatration. Like sageoldguy said, you might wanna try a new positition of invest in some water based lube (ky jelly).
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, LovelyLemon +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Doggy is a position that many women find painful because the angle is a bit different and he may often hit your cervix if he is long enough. The positioning of your legs also does not allow for easy penetration.
If you don't enjoy this position, kindly let your guy know that it just really isn't doing it for you. If you want to try it again, I advise bending over a table or something that allows you to be at a 90 degree angle, making the vagina more accessible. Also, use lube or make sure you are well warmed-up. This should help with the skin pulling issue.
Much love and Best wishes
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 February 2012):
 are you wet enough?
there should not be any skin tugging...
put your shoulders and head down on the bed and a pillow under you with your tush up in the air
be VERY well lubed... go slow...
and accept that for some it does not work..
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (16 February 2012):
If you don't line up it wont work. Use cushions etc to get the height right or try on the edge of the bed or on the back of a sofa. be creative, its fun. Use some lube maybe, but if it hurts just try another way.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Best advice = Don't bother trying it again.....
Good luck...
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