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writes:Basically I used to like some guy were still mates but I still think eh doesnt like me more than a mate. Recently he like to me I will one hopefully buy you a bucnh of roses becuase he was joking aroud saying didnt u get my valentines day preent etc. Basically yesterday he text me randomly saying ' have i ever told u,dat ure a star and the guy thats gets u will be very lucky guy' wat does this mean?Does he like mean?Or is he just being freindly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): This guy hasnt said eh doesnt like me and hasnt told me he likes me when I told him I liked him he never answered he was like youcant like me how can you like me etc. Well I took your advice and asked him to come round mine if he is board because he was complaning he wasnt and I thought he wasnt going to come but he did which was a shock becuase I had feeling eh wouldnt come when he came he didnt talk moved around a lot kept changing seating positions and was touching everything he was very quiet but when my mate came he started talking more and bear in mind that was the first time he met my mate.Could this mean anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2012): It means whatever guy you end up with will be lucky to have you but he won't be that guy. I'd steer clear. I think he likes the attention he gets from flirting but isn't interested in you otherwise.
He could have gotten you roses, could have asked you on a date, could have gotten you a valentine's day present but he didn't. I would take his words with a grain of salt.
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reader, Holli' +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Hiya hun,
Instead of someone telling you what he means you can try to work it out for yourself ;)
What you need to do is start gradually talking to him more, this could take a couple of weeks just texting more often and seeing if he puts kisses and silly stuff like that. After a little while you should ask him to go somewhere with him, not as in a date but be like 'I need to go (here/this place) would you mind coming with me?' just to see if he is willing.
If he doesn't this is when you can begin to doubt, but not after the first try of asking him to accompany you somewhere, try at least three times, and don't try all 3 in the same week, depending on if he has a good reason for not coming to one or two but he comes on the third he might be interested, you have to play your card right - not obvious.
And another tip for when your texting him, don't come across too 'needy' in other words don't be texting him 2 million times a day :P (ok, perhaps a bit of an over-exaggeration) :P and when you text him, don't be flirty or overly complementary, just be friendly and 'cool' :)
So if he doesn't come with you on any of the 3 occasions, don't ask him again for a while, just keep talking to him and you could try again a couple of weeks later, but if he does come then he's probably a little interested ;)
Don't be flirty when he goes with you, just be friendly and cool like on the texts, and a little flirty towards the end of the time your spending with each other :)
Just keep on acting this way, not to needy, friendly and sometimes a little flirty and he will begin to like you :) but never get upset about anything like if in the end he isn't really that into you, remember 'there are plenty more birds in the trees' ;)
I hope this helps you hun, let me know okay, and be honest ;) and either way what he text you was a compliment anyway x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2012): Hi,
Has the guy explicitly said he didn't like you as more than a friend? If yes, even though it sounds like he is flirting with you, he might be playing with you. If he never said he didn't like you as more than a friend maybe you should ask him out on a date and see if he's keen or if he comes up with a reason and says no. Good luck!
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