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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello! :)I have a little problem. I really like this boy and I don't know if I should tell him. He's one of my friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Yesterday, I was texting him and I asked him who he liked and he said he doesn't know and I asked what do you mean and he was like he likes people but he would like them more if they liked him. He also told me I was pretty and when we hug he never lets go. Hes done other things but this one thing made me confused. My friend asked him out for me even though I said I didn't want to go out with him but he said he just got out of a relationship (which he did) and he said maybe in a few months, but we didn't talk again for the rest of the semester (two weeks). I don't know if he was just being nice or what. We are talking again though. I really don't know what to do. My brain says you dont need a boyfriend, my heart says but you like that other guy in your 2nd block and my gut says don't listen to them, you like him more than anybody else!! I don't know what to do! Should I tell him I like him or would it jeopardize our friendship?
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 I think you should tell him, but after you're sure that he's over his ex, so that if he does like you, his feelings are only for you. I was in love with my best friend for 2 years, and one night I couldn't keep it, so I told him. I'm so glad I did because it was driving me crazy. He would've dated me, but it might ruin our friendship, so we decided to stay best friends. I'm happy that I told him because I knew that he would still accept me and things wouldn't change, and they haven't. I'm still in love with him and I don't know when I'll get over him, but I'll do it in my own time. If he's a good friend, then he won't let something like this come between your friendship. It's not your fault that you feel this way and he should understand. If he likes you, then great. If he doesn't, then there are other guys, but hopefully you'll still have him as a friend.
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