A
female
age
30-35,
*adyIris
writes:Hi, recently my ex boyfriend has returned for the 3rd time trying to get close to me. I always end up getting hurt but this time seems diffrent in a way. He isnt ready to commit until after high school, but he says he really likes me and he has not dated anyone since we broke up. He never asks me to hang out outside of school except once, but I never ask ethier. He is always coming to me wether he is with his friends or im with mine he doesnt care. But I feel like im giving him the cold shoulder because I never even look at him but I do like him. Im trying to protect myself from getting hurt again. Should I losen up and let him back in? Or keep my heart locked up? Please help.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 It's never 3rd time lucky. This guy is young, and although he likes you, he is not ready to settle down and make a commitment to you. Tell him you don't trust him, and you want a proper boyfriend who is man enough to know what he wants. If he really is serious, then he needs to do something big, like make sure the whole school, your family, his friends and the whole world know that he loves you more anything anything else in the world.
He aint a bad guy. He's just very, very young and frightened that a girlfriend means he will miss out and get too old and serious before he has had time to have fun.
Maybe when you are both older, but right now all he can do is hurt.
Sorry babes...
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