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writes: 4months ago i met a guy at a beach party. nothing happened, not even a kiss but i was so attracted to him, don't know on his side if he felt the same. long story short, i searched him on FB and send him a mail, didn't send a friend request or my phone number as am afraid things could go further than just a crush. my problem is that i sent him another msg when i was drunk last wk and i feel like digging a hole and hide in it as am so embarassed with what i wrote .( " i have feelings for you and i will regret writing u this, but i can't stop myself, i know i will feel like digging a hole and hide in it tomorrow when am sober".) basically he always reply my msgs like 6days later or so of which i get angry because he takes so long to reply, but now it's been a week buts still no reply. he is always apologizing for taking long to reply saying he doesn't get on FB often. i have been married for 3yrs now, i don't melt when my husband touches me ever since i gave birth to our kid 2yrs ago, am 24 and i can't help but want that melting feeling again. Am always dry when having sex and my husband and I have tried so many ways. My husband is a great guy and i know i don't deserve him and can never find someone like him ever. i don't want to lose my husband but i have lust for this other married guy. we haven't met again since the night we met but i do know if we could meet again and he would ask me to sleep with him i wouldn't be able to say no. It's wrong i know but i can't bring myself together to cut contacts with him and stop havinng feelings for him. Is Sex that important in marriage? my sex life totally sucks!!! no horny, can't get wet unless i watch porn alone or fantasize about my crush. Why can't i feel this for my husband instead ???? Anyone ever had this? Please Help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2011): You need to seriously look at your marriage, you think sleeping with someone else will fix things. Your are so wrong!!
You do this you will be divorced and go from relationship to relationship. Especially, if the sizzle wears off.
Have you ever thought you could also mess up his life and effect all the people in his life that are dear to him now.
You want sex, find someone single. This way you only destroy your own marriage.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 How can you honestly say that you have feelings for a person that you have only met once in your life. I think you may have scared this guy off for good now, and I hope that you have, he is married and I hope he stays away from you and does not write back to you now again. You need to concentrate on your marriage. A lot of woman lose interest in sex once they have children, you just need to put some excitement back in to the relationship. So stop talking to this 'crush' and start working on your marriage. Go to a couples therapy session and try and fight to get this relationship back on track.
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