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After I have sex with boyfriend I lose all interest!

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Question - (10 November 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aylou writes:

Okay, erm I don't really know how to put this. Every time I have sex with a guy and they become my boyfriend I lose all interest in them and completely do not enjoy sex with them. I don't know what is wrong with me.

I was in a relationship on and off for 4 years and I wasn't that interesrted in it, if we had sex with eachother whilst broke up, I was into it and enjoyed it, just not when we were together.

Whilst we split last year, I had a 'friends with benefits' and that was perfect. No drama, doing my own thing, it was a sweet deal. Anyhow, I got back with my boyfriend, had sex, lost interest again, stuck around for a few months and then split with him a few months ago.

I've got another 'friends with benefits' at the moment and its the same, its perfect. Its really good and I enjoy it.

What is wrong with me? Does being in a relationship scare me? or is it just sex that I'm interested in and nothing else? Oh and has this happened to anyone else?

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