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writes:how can i make myself to enjoy while having sex even though my partner have a small penis?And is mastubation good for someone who is in a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Ooh I love smallsies. How small is "small" here? Is there a specific problem you're facing during sex? We need more details here.
And masturbation is quite normal. Enjoy yourself.
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reader, moon river  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 like how small? small enough that you can barely find it it or just smaller than average?
small penises can be amazing as well, its a silly part of our culture that penises have to be big.
you can use toys with him and stuff as well! make him get good at oral ;)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Only the first 3 inches of the vagina have nerve endings anyways, and the majority of women who can orgasm from penetration orgasm because it's stimulating their clitoris anyways. It really isn't about size, it's about how you use it. During sex you should be finding ways to stimulate your clitoris, either from you doing it or having him add in a hand.
About masturbation, masturbate away. It's healthy, helps you learn about your own body, puts you in a good mood, why wouldn't you do it? Also you think your boyfriend isn't?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (10 November 2011):
 It's not the size, it's how he uses his penis. Try other positions, ask him to vary his thrusts. Small penis can move in more exciting ways than a large one can. Experiment and have fun. Use oral sex, touching and masturbation if you find you cannot climax this way. Masturbation alone or together is fine in a relationship. Some people do not like their partners to masturbate alone, but if you do it in front of him and tell him that you also like to masturbate alone, it should be fine.
In sex, experiment, talk and be honest is always best. See http://www.sexinfo101.com/ for positions and things that you both can try together.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Have you had sex with him? What part of it is unsatisfactory? Do you have foreplay, does he focus on you and your pleasure? A lot of this is up to him and how he treats you in bed, because a man who is good in bed looks to please his partner, no matter his size. A man who is not good in bed can have the size of an elephant and not do any good. It all comes down to what your boyfriend does, what he is interested in, if you can talk to him about it and how you communicate.
And yes, you can masturbate while in a relationship. You could for example include your boyfriend in your masturbation, like masturbating while he is inside you, or while he also touches you, or you can watch each other masturbate for a sensual experience.
But in order for you to enjoy the sex you need to work out what is the problem. If it really is just his size, then there should be plenty of other things to compensate with.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 November 2011):
 define SMALL....
my partner is on the low side of "average" now and I enjoy sex more with him than with my larger sized partners.
and masturbation is perfectly fine for anyone in my opinion. I am in a live in relationship and still masturbate regularly (and I'm 51 so it's not limited to youngsters)
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