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writes:Hi to all of you.i have been with my husband for almost 4 years.we are married for almost 3 years.he was married b4.he has a child with women.the reason he is not with her anymore is that he cheated on her.My problem is that he has cheated on me and i can not get over it and feel i cant trust him anymore.at time i call work to find out if he is there but deep inside i feel his might still cheat on me.he told me to trust him but how can i trust him after what he did.after we were married for almost 2 years i found out that he is cheating.one night i just went in our room and oh i see that he is putting something away thats looks like a phone.i asked him what it is and he told me its a phone.i took the phone and it was girls(about 30 girls) smsing him,have sex chat with them.him having a extra phone i did not know about.2 of the girls he dated 4 more than time we together.he asked me to 4give him and i did but never 4got about it.so one morning i got up early than find him watching porn from internet and i ask him why and he promise not to do it again.i went to stay with my mom them 4 2 months this year and when he came to get me a girl sms and it was again 1 of the girls from the phone.he started chatting with her again.she came to our place when i was not there that time.he promise again not to do it but now i cant forget it. What should i do? I cant trust him anymore.Thanks for taking time to read.take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thank to your reply. I do have a child with my husband. 3years old and im pregnant 3months. I dont realy have family that i can call my family.my only family is my mom,sisters but dont want to talk about it this way.i would rather talk to some1 in private about it.its best to leave and end everything but where will i go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all the replys.i have a child with him.she is 3 years old and im pregnant for 3months. I dont realy call my family,my family.only mom and my sister i have.i cant realy talk to them.we also have our difference.that i would talk to someone in private about it that want to talk about it with me.i only made up to grade 9 and cant find a job.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 I am afraid you should just call it quits. Porn is the lesser of your issues here, the problem is that this seems really to be a case of " once a cheater always a cheater ". He cheated on his ex wife and then he cheated on you. And not once, but with 4 ( or 6 ? not clear ) girls for all the time you were together. He comes to get you for kiss-and-make-up , and voila, still one of his old groupies around. A bit too much. He does not sound repentant and he does not sound like someone who wants to change his behaviour.If you stay with him, he'll probably just become better at covering his tracks and doing stuff behind your back.
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