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anonymous
writes:Recently my boyfriend and I were on vacation. In the resort there was another man (we're gay) who was obviously gay too, and he always smiled at my boyfriend and sometimes they stole glances at each other. I don't mind that kind of harmless flirting, but when we came back from the holiday my boyfriend ran into this stranger at the supermarket! They were so surprised at the coincidence that they started talking to each other, exchanged mobile phone numbers and agreed to meet up for coffee. My boyfriend told me about it, so its seems harmless. Nonetheless I have a bad feeling that this is not a good thing. They are sending each other text messages every once and a while, and I have a suspision they would like to meet, if they haven't have already. Is this something to be worried about or am I overreacting? I wish he had just flirted a bit with the guy and didn't go as far as exchange numbers.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Little flirtation and then unexpectedly they meet again. You are right, there is nothing wrong about that.
But, I don't like them sending each other text messages and extended contact. Flirt yes, meet a stranger and say hello again. I would be jealous. Nothing is happening now, but if they stay in touch, then maybe a romance will develop.
There is nothing wrong with you telling your boyfriend how you feel. Imagine it was you has met someone and acted like this. How would he feel, would he like it.
Just tell him your jealous and feel threatened and ask for him to keep all his contacts with this guy public where you can see and also be involved.
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