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reader, yami  +, writes (21 November 2011):
yami is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUmm no but I want to hang out with him to keep him away frm that grl & my brother?like how can I try to make him like me? Do I have to flirt?any advice?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2011):
 hanging out and being buddies is one thing
hanging out and hoping he will like you as more than just a casual friend is totally another thing... and he may pick up on that and feel pressure you don't intend...
being friends with a boy you want more from is a fine line and very difficult.. are you sure you want that stress?
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reader, yami +, writes (21 November 2011):
yami is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh so I shouldny hang out woth him?all my family tells me that I should ha
ng out with him and go out they say he will like me more is that true?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2011):
no he won't like you more if you monopolize his time.
also if you are 16 and he is 14 and you are sexual that's not good for you depending on what state you are in it can get you in trouble.
if you can't see that what you want at 14 is not what you want at 16 you are not ready for this.
I got married at 21 and by 29 I was ready to be done with the type of man I married.... and ended the marriage because what i wanted at 21 was NOT what I wanted a 29... I grew and matured.
and at 14 and 16 both of you will grow and mature more than you can imagine.
and TEENS talking about FWB, you have no clue what that is about... I think FWB needs to be reserved for divorced adults who already know what the itch they are scratching is about...
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reader, yami +, writes (21 November 2011):
yami is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow will he want something different by the time hes 16? & well were friends w/ benefits now which we will kiss & have sex soon bit hes friends w/benefits with this other girl that my brother hooked tjem up which I am so mad! I heard that if I hang out with him alot it will keep him from being with them and much more beinh with me should I hang out with him alot? Will he like me more?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2011):
you can't MAKE him like you.
just be yourself... truth is that he's 14 and by the time he's 16 he may want very different things than what he wants now...
does he call you or are you doing all the initial contact?
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reader, yami +, writes (21 November 2011):
yami is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you & how can I make him like me?
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reader, be11is +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Hey girly!
I remember those awkward conversations myself at your age, their not all that fun.
Some questions you could ask him:
- How was your day?
- What'd you do?
- If he plays sports, ask him stuff about that?
- Talk about any annoying teachers maybe you both have.
- Ask him what he's doing for Thanksgiving.
- Ask him about his siblings maybe? or any pets he may have?
- TV shows or video games?
That's all I could think of for now, but good luck next time you guys talk! If you have any more questions feel free to ask!
- Be11is x
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