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writes:Hi..I got friendly with a guy a few years ago. he was a single parent in a long distance relationship, we became friends..... I babysat the children, took them to school...grew to love all of them and we had some really fabulous 'family' times together. I'm in my 40's divorced, would have loved to have had more kids but never had the opportunity (never found the right guy !) Any way to cut a long story short...his ex wife got the kids, he went abroad to get married with his LDR( despite my declaring my love for him and his children) A week after his wedding...he's sleeping on my floor........HELP my head is frying ? What do I do next?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Honestly I'd tell him to go back to his wife. You can't be his doormat.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Obviously he did not have the same feelings for you, so professing your love was a risk; perhaps a risk worth taking but you cannot make someone feel the same thing you do for them. You took a chance on love and it didn't work out. He had other plans, and another love waiting in the wings. When you say he's sleeping on your floor, I assume you meant the same floor in your apartment building.(Is moving possible?) If not just keep your distance, stay busy, go out, hang with friends, date and try your best to move on. But whatever you do, don't continue to babysit for him, or have any ties. It'll just be too painful.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Why is he sleeping on your floor and not in bed with his new wife??
Your post needs more details.
There's nothing you can do because he's a married man, and still got married even after you confessed your undying love for this guy. I'm sorry but you can't live out your dreams with this man because he isn't allowing it. Nor does he care to share your dreams.
I'd tell him to go back to his wife and let go of this friendship.
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 What do you mean by, he's sleeping on your floor? Doesn't he have his own place, or is he having an affair with you?
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