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*adyIris
writes:Im a 16 year old girl who is a proud virgin, and my ex boyfriend who i like has asked for sex in the beginning and I told him no. He now after 6 months still likes me and never even hints the idea. But now all of a sudden im craving sex! What do I do!?
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reader, frankman +, writes (11 November 2011):
hmm, It's sad how culturally in America, people consider virgins not normal. That's why most girls would be lucky if they reach 17 and still virgins. my only advise for you is not to lose your virginity until you 100% totally convinced. Be confident that you will be happy if you can lose it with the person you love or settle down with. I hope you will find that person soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2011): You shouldn't be concerned with sex at your age. You have a long way to go. Focus on building your character. Teach yourself new skills, meet new people, learn a new language, play in a sporting team, go on a journey of self discovery, be a role model and earn the admiration of girls younger than you as well as the trust and confidence of your parents and other adults as a mature young women. Stressing over sex and boys like what you're doing now just robs you of your youthful potential. Enjoy the fulness of life first as a young person by developing the full potential of your mind and body as well as forming healthy relationships with all kinds of people. Doing these things will make you be a multi-talented, skilled, physically refined, verbally articulate and highly respected among peers, older and younger people. Developing your character correctly will place you in a MORE FAVOURABLE position to make the right the decisions when it comes to love, sex and marriage. So don't get sucked into the current sex saturated culture which most of your friends are in. Be 10 steps ahead of them. Develop and refine your character first. Otherwise you'll end up as one of the many youths of this generation, disappointed and disillusioned with sex. HOPE THIS HELPS.
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reader, champagne69  +, writes (11 November 2011):
First of all, if you are not confident or comfortable enough to ask him for sex, then you are not ready.
Secondly, you say you are a proud virgin, you won't be so proud of yourself when you give it away to an ex, there's obviously a reason you're still not with him, so perhaps he is not worthy of it.
Stay a proud virgin and wait for the right guy please, don't let your teenage hormones make you make the wrong decision.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Do not give away a precious gift to an ex. There is a right and a wrong time for everything. This is the WRONG time.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 November 2011):
 I agree with Miamine... wait for the right guy NOT an ex boyfriend.
in this case don't settle for LIKE
wait for LOVE
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Please wait baby.. Ex-boyfriends are not the people for first time sex. The right guy will come soon. Remember you have all your life to have sex. But ex-boyfriends can hurt you.
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