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*exy ginger
writes:IS it ok for my boyfriend to want to be bestfriends with my babys daddy and perhaps thinking about having a threesome with him and also trying to get me jealous over him?? Is this normal because i'm having serious issiues with it, help!! sexyginger
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Bestfriends is fine, it's best for the children. But the sex thing sounds very, very strange. Many men have fantasies about threesomes, but I've never heard anything like this. It makes no sense.
Either he is trying to test you to see if you want your ex back or he is suffering deeply from jealousy and wants to punish you in some way.
Don't let yourself be used or pushed into doing something you regret. You have done nothing wrong. Ask you boyfriend why he has this sexual obsession with your ex partner, ask him what is going on in his head and why he is thinking like this.
Ask, don't get angry, get answers that make some sense.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Is your boyfriend bisexual or gay? If not then why on earth would he want a threesome with another male? That's not normal.
Wanting to have one with your ex shows a complete lack of respect to you. Wanting it just to make you jealous also shows his level of respect for you.
Why are you with this man who appears to be more interested in your ex than in you?
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reader, goldengirl88 +, writes (10 November 2011):
Yuck, that is disgusting, if you were comfortable with it, which it does not sound like you are than that would be fine, but where is your boyfriend coming from. As with Him and your ex being friends then if they generally have a connection as friends than i would not see a problem with that, but the threesome thing that is really over the top. Maybe he is trying to see if you are still interested in your ex sexually or romantically, it could be a test. I would tell your boyfiend it makes you uncomfortable and that it is not something you are interested in, hopefully he will have enough respect for you and drop the subject.
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