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26-29,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for ALMOST 2 years.....he usually calls me multiple times a day sometimes even more.... but recnetly ive been alittle busy so i could really answer his calls but to make up for missing his calls i sent him a txt saying "sorry...etc" he replied "ok" but after that....i havent gotten ANY calls from him the whole day yesterday i tried calling him but he didnt answer but 10 min later he texted me back(obviously he purposely didnt answer....so the whole day yesterday all hes been doing is txting me....no more calls...and i hate it b/c im not used to it and it feels weird because he sounds so serious like hes mad or something.....should i try calling him today? or give him some space? or why do you think this could be happenning?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 November 2011):
 I say give him space! If you two are constantly talking/texting, the relationship can get clingy and smothery.
Just back off for a bit. Take a few days and give him space. If he hasn't called you by Sunday, then call him and see how he's doing.
I agree that texting is not the way to conduct the entirety of a relationship. They can be misinterpreted ("he sounds serious like he's mad"). Why not wait a few days, then call and ask him out? Or, better yet, let him ask you out!
Remember, the relationship is a marathon, not a sprint. You can burn yourselves out with too much smothery contact.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 November 2011):
 I don't purposely NOT answer my phone. That's not a good assumption. My BF actually left a message day before yesterday that started with "I got your damn voicemail AGAiN YOU NEVER hear your phone"... and it's true... I rarely hear it ring so I get tons of missed calls that I call back as soon as I know about them...
TEXTING is no way to have a relationship....
if you have been together nearly 2 years you should know him way better than we do....
personally I'd call and say I hate texting is everything ok and go from there.
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