Does he like me and want to take things slow? Or am I putting him off?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm fifteen, i started seeing a boy about 2 weeks ago and at first, i split up his friendship with two of his friends because i'd played them. I said sorry and we all made friends but me and this boy have grown strong feelings for each other. He is seventeen which isnt unusual as i always go for boys older and for the last 2 weeks, i've been going round to his house, cuddling, kissing and even went out with his family last week. A couple of days ago, we were cuddling on the sofa when i asked him 'what are we?' and he replied 'whatever you want us to be'. Then i said 'what do you mean?' and he said 'i have an idea, be with me' to which i replied 'i want to'. He said 'okay be with me from now on'. After that, he seemed a little bit more distant than usual but i've been suffering from stress and just being a teenager lately so it might have just been me. Last night, i went round to his house and everything was just normal. When we were alone i asked him what he mean by be with him and he said as in go out with me. i said yes. Then when i left he text me asking if we can wait a couple of weeks before a relationship as he wants to take things slow and ease into it. I said thats fine and that i really like him so im happy to wait for him. I went to bed but we didnt say love you or anything. Then i had a really good night sleep and now im feeling more refreshed and happy, i rang him and we spoke for a bit, he was with his friends on playstation so he said 'can i ring you back later?' i said 'yeah thats fine'... and he said love you before he went. This may sound a bit immature but i really like him, i never tell boys i love them unless i really mean it. We're both still virgins aswell which is hard to find of a boy his age in my area. Does he like me and want to take things slow? or am i putting him off? i've only been myself. please help x

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