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writes:Can I send this to my ex who cheated on me?" Remember when you said to me that I'm a strong person, I thought I was but do you think I'd be here with you right now if I was? I'm weak callum, weak for coming back to you while knowing there's a chance we won't be together properly. Being with you is amazing, feel like nothings changed but when I leave this fantasy dream world and go back to reality I realise what a fool I'm being, a fool for acting I'm ok with everything, and its killing me a little more each day. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you, since the day I met you till now. I'm not over you callum, believe me I have tried my hardest to overcome my feelings for you, it just doesn't work. That time you said I look like I've been having so much fun since we have been broken up, well I haven't, I try and get on with my life but your always in my mind. I'm always thinking about you, hoping to bump into you somewhere, wishing we were together. You said to me you still love me and miss me, but do you? I'm confused with what you want, it hurts so much. I love you so much Callum, never have I stopped loving you. My love for you is so pure I would do anything for you but I can't go on like this, not knowing where this is heading. So let me know what you want, I just want the truth. I need to know if you want me in your life as boyfriend and girlfriend, or nothing and we can go on living separate lives. I can't just be your friend, I'll always want more and knowing that someday you'll find a girl who will steal your heart and that you truly love breaks my heart. I can't be in your life knowing that cos it will just kill me. Just know whatever you choose I will always love you and wish you all the happiness in the world, no matter what your faults are, you are a decent man and I know when you do find that girl who you can love better than anyone, I know you will treat her right. You are amazing, I do not regret you at all, you coming into my life was the best thing that has happened to me, my first and only true love x "What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust want to say, i left it and didnt send the message, but guess what, now hes dead. how fucked up is that, not joking, im in bits
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (17 December 2011):
 I'm sorry for your loss. You're kinda taken aback when an ex boyfriend dies. One of mine died this May.
Sorry you didn't get the closure you needed..but ex's rarely give us that satisfaction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, he is dead now, I found out he died on the 8th of october. i cant believe it and i didnt send him the letter. i am so distraut. I'm not even joking i cant ^^^^g believe this has happened^arghh i loved him so much
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2011):
If he's already your ex, then why are you asking him to choose between being in a relationship or nothing at all? At the moment, it's nothing..friends if you can honestly say you two are friends.
Personally, I wouldn't bother. He cheated on you! Cheaters who've already cheated once will more than likely do it again!
Have you forgiven him? Could you trust him again? Those are questions you need to ask yourself before sending this letter asking for him back.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 November 2011):
 If he's your ex-... then I suggest that you print out a "hard" copy of this note.... Keep it in your bedside stand drawer for 6 months. In six months, remove it from the drawer, read it, and - if it THEN seems to make any sense to do so - send it to him.....
Good luck....
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (10 November 2011):
 No offence but he cheated on you? that isn't treating a girl amazing now is it?
Think through this situation if you let him back into your life will things be different this time? or will he just cause more heart ache and go and cheat again?
What were his reasons for cheating, was it acutally sex or just a drunken kiss? Did he care about the way he hurt you and did he think about your feelings at all when he cheated?
Take everything into consideration before you go and send that text, you might still love him but sometimes you have got to establish if your throwing your self into another situation thats going to do more bad than good.
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