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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating a guy for four months now, we'll call him Peter. When peter and I were in bed last night he was telling me about some of his old flings and what silly things they used to do. He's had so many flings and when he was asleep it got me thinking. Am I one of these flings? I've been chasing a dream that maybe I could be Special to him because he asks me everywhere with him but he doesn't want a relationship. I saw Condoms in his car last night as well, he probably had them with another girl. I know we're not a couple but it still hurt me because since him I've not even looked at another guy. What can I do about it? I'm afraid if I talk to him we'll stop meeting up becuase I care about him but if i don't I'll get hurt won't I? What do i do?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (12 November 2011):
 I agree it sounds like you are just another fling to him. You need to talk to him about it, yes you are scared but would you rather he just kept using you? You need to talk to him and ask him what the story is before you get in any deeper and get hurt any more, him saying he does not want a relationship means that for him it is just about the sex.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (12 November 2011):
I agree it sounds like you are just another fling to him. You need to talk to him about it, yes you are scared but would you rather he just kept using you? You need to talk to him and ask him what the story is before you get in any deeper and get hurt any more, him saying he does not want a relationship means that for him it is just about the sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2011): Yes, you are definitely just one of his flings.
The tip-off that he doesn't want a relationship was when he said "I don't want a relationship."
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