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I want him to have a good career and status but he wants to stay and take care of his parents. Is there any solution to this?

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Question - (31 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2011)
A female India age 30-35, *wasti writes:

Hi friends.

I have a problem and i really wanna solutn of dat.

My bf is the owner of a jwelery shop or say, his father is. His brother has settld himself and has a good career n status of his own. But my bf is just like a care taker of his father's shop. He has just passed a b.com degree. N, now when i ask him to study further and do a good job of his own, he says he can't leave his dad alone with the shop. His mom dad are ill. So if he would go anywhere else for studies then who will take care of his parents and shop. Coz the place he lives is not well advanced for a good higher education.

But, i really want him to be sucesful n stand on his own feet. So that, he too can have a good career n status of his own. But he doesn't listen to me.

Plz sugest any solution of this problem. How can i convince him. Or is there any way out so that he can maintain both his parents and career. . . Plz help.

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A female reader, Swasti India +, writes (1 August 2011):

Swasti is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Swasti agony auntno. There are no chances that i can see. M proud that he is a loyal son. But i want him to have a good career first, then he can expand his dad's buisness too. . .

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A female reader, Lucky786 United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2011):

Lucky786 agony auntI think it is wonderful that your boyfriend wants to stick around and help his parents at a time when they need him the most. He is a loyal son and you should be proud of him.

Is it possible that he may be able to return to his studies in a few years?

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