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writes:Hi,I work with a girl who I have developed strong feelings for and I don’t know what to do. She broke up with her boyfriend about 5 months ago and we have become very close, we have spent a lot of time together, going out to dinner, to the movies or just finishing work and going round to her place and chilling for hours in her bedroom, she’s even fallen asleep many times in my arms.Everyone at our workplace thinks we’re an item and every time we went out she was worried about people seeing us together, it doesn’t bother her much now, we text and talk to each other nearly every day. Her family are up north and she is down south due to the job so she is practically on her own down here. I’m 30 and she is 22 and the other day whilst in her bedroom just messing about we kissed very briefly, straight after she sort of reacted like it was a mistake but ended up hugging me really tightly, and yesterday we kissed but then again she pulled away, both kisses weren’t full blown but I just don’t know what to do. When messing about I was teasing her about giving her a lovebite and kissed her neck and continued to do so but she never pushed me back saying I know you wouldn’t hurt me cos I trust you. It feels like she wants to go further but something is holding her back.I have spoken to one of my female friends and she said that it’s obvious that she likes you cos you wouldn’t be in her bedroom and she certainly wouldn’t fall asleep in the arms of someone she wasn’t comfortable with. I won’t be able to see her out of work for a month cos i’m a muslim and I will be fasting for the whole of August, she said she is going to miss me but we will see each other at work and maybe the distance will make her realise. I don’t know what to do, can you help? Advice would be much appreciatedThanksSS
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reader, cinc71  +, writes (19 August 2011):
 go for it! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011): You have strong feelings for her, judging by her behaviour she clearly reciprocates some - if not all - of them, everyone at work thinks you're together already and you sure *act* like a couple... what are you waiting for? Make it official!
I honestly don't think you have anything to lose here. Tell her how you feel about her (perhaps she's been holding back waiting for confirmation of your feelings in her regard?) and just take it from there. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck and take care :)
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