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writes:Ok so heres the story. Theres this guy i have known for the past 2 yrs. I met him because he was my boss. Well he was transferred about a yr ago and up until may our relationship had been strictly professional. We no longer work together in the same store. Back in may i helped him out and worked at his store for a week. Thats when our "bootycall" relationship started. We agreed that it would strictly be about sex only. So we would meet up and....... and then go about our own business. Never talking about our personal lives or anything. Well lately i have kind of grown feelings for him. I have not told him though. Also our bootycall relationship has changed too. Now most of our text convos are about our lives and just talk about anything and everything more than sex. We will talk for hrs. My question is should i tell him how i feel? Is he viewing our relationship differently too? I dont want to risk what we have and scare him off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2011): FWB's NEVER work out for very long because one always develops feelings for the other at some point. But this sounds like you guys have stumbled into a mutual friendship as well. If you tell him, whether he feels the same or not, the relationship will change. But you have to tell him because your feelings will only become greater. The bootycall days or over now. It's time to move forward with him or move on without him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2011): I have to admit I like how straightforward you are with your situation. You call it like it is lol.
Anyway I would say go for it. If neither one of you are married or in a relationship then tell him. If you are nervous maybe drop hints at first and see how he responds. But if either one of you is in a relationship then you may want to reconsider telling him.
Good luck to you.
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