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writes:Hi I’m 16 nearly 17 and I need some advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend.We’ve been together for 6 months now and He’s getting pretty confident when it comes to pleasing me. We've both agreed to wait a while before sex but he often gets a bit carried away and normally ends up going below the waist on me and I really really want to return the favour but my confidence always gets in the way cause Im so self conscious im going to do something wrong or he wont actually enjoy it! I’ve spoken to him about it and he said he understands and he wants to help boost my confidence a bit. So last time we were alone together and we were making out, my hands were on his waist and he slowly led them down to his belt and after a while, he’d gradually led me to the point where I was basically rubbing him through his boxers lets say? It was good cause I didn’t feel pressured and he was so patient it really boosted my confidence and he said he enjoyed it. So this was great and he said I was doing really well but I was wondering what the next step could be from here without going into a proper handjob? And any tips on what I could do with my hands to make it better for him would be great, thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011): I think this a pretty good article about it: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/hand-job
I haven't actually done this (yet!) so I can't tell you anything from experience, but Cosmo tends to give reliable and straightforward advice :) Relax, do what comes naturally and don't forget to have fun! Good luck and take care x
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (1 August 2011):
 maybe you could very gradually ease your hand under his boxers and just stroke there to get him more excited? Try different stroking patterns and rhythms~ i like pressing my fingers on my boyfriends bulge lightly one by one very quickly :)
Good Luck ^_^
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