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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: okay well i'm thirteen and i really like a guy but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still like him tons and i like his cuzin more cause his cuzins way cuter, but thats not the point, anyways. i dont know why. he said he liked me and kissed me alot of times, and tries to kiss me alot of times to but i dont let myself that much, but then he changed his mind right before he was gonna ask me out. i've had all of one boyfriend, but i broke up with him becuz i was getting teased (shallow i know) but i want to know, how i can get him to like me again? I know i cant MAKE him like me, i just want to know like, what would be the best way to try.... we email eachother alot and stuff, and talk about our dreams and what not and he seems perfect.plz help, and if u do, thanks so much.XOXO
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): Forget about this guy, and any other guy for now. You are 13! There will be plenty of time for guys later. Focus on getting yourself a good education. It may not sound cool now, but I tell what will be a lot less cool later- working some dead-end job hoping some prince is going to come and save you. Ain't going to happen. The only person you should be worrying about making you like you is you. Don't get caught in some trap of believing you need to make people like you. Celebrate your fabulousness by investing in yourself.
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