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She asked one night if I wanted to kiss her, I said yes, and we did. Then she says she's not okay with it. I need some answers please.

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Question - (21 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2008)
A female United States age , *harm5 writes:

I have a friend who Ive fallen for, and when I told her she ignored my comment. One night after another conversation she asked if I wanted to kiss her and I said yes, so we did. It was the best ever and I never felt complete.

After that night she said that she was not ok with it, even though it was very nice. We ignored the issue but I cant get her out of my mind. I drank quite a bit and I called her and asked why and if she remembered that night. I feel I need answers since we have ignored it all, yet we flirt with each other all the time.

She said she was my friend and did want me to fall for her, and she said we cant talk for a while or communicate in any way. I know I cant make anyone do anything - but why is she avoiding it? We solve the issue, answer each other's questions, and move on and keep being friends.

I just need some feedback so I can think rationally. Thanks

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A female reader, charm5 United States +, writes (2 December 2008):

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Well its been a few months. I appearently did not do well by sending flowers for the holidays...I was asked never to contact her again..I am upset but kinda expected this decision from her.. I will move on and not wait and will give up all hope of ever reuniting with my friend.

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A female reader, Tash United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2008):

this is so strange im in pretty much the same situation, i was out with my friend we were drunk and she kissed me we both enjoyed it and i really like her..since then its happened again and we text and talk all the time flirt like hell she takes me out for a drive and she stays at mine hold hands cuddle up in bed etc its all very nice ive fallen for her bad :/ but i just dont know where its going dont want to ask her in case i lose her which i no i probably wont but dont want to spoil what weve got atm...thats my story just thought id tell you..so you know theres people here for you in kinda the same boat..if you wanna talk im right here..message me tash xxx i know i havent really given you any answers but i hope it helps :/ xxx

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