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writes:Okay i have a bunch of questions might as well put them in one thing!Do guys like Pubic hair?If not how do you take it off without those lil' hairs sticking up? (yes iv shaved it before!)How do you tell a guy you like him when you have his email but is too shy to talk to him via email and when he goes to a diff school??? (im hopeless!)I am a virgin and i like to finger myself but once i got a urinary tract infection and im afraid to do it again... any suggestions?also have any suggestions on fingering?I just started my period and im nervous about using tampons but im gonna scream if i use one more pad they are soooo uncomfortable!!I did not enter my real age, but its recuired so....oh wellplease answer!!!!!!!!!!!:)
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reader, 2dancinfeetxx +, writes (16 February 2009):
masterbate your clit instead of fingering yourself this way you youre not going inside. after anything enters your body whether its a finger or penis youre supposed to pee 10 minutes after to flush out bacteria and avoid infections
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reader, PHOBIA MAN  +, writes (6 January 2009):
relax, you are green to go with more masterbation, just wash hands etc before and after.KY jelly is a good start to wetting down there, if you can't easily get it use spit BUT brush teeth first (just good practise)
try circling your clitoris, sometimes direct clitoral contact too sensitive(you'll know!)allow the feeling to build up and just keep going, coming will follow, njoy!
guys are just happy to see lady gardens, hair or not.
deep breathing when inserting tampons keep you relaxed.
keep emails light and honest, guy don't need fancy stuff just chit chat and maybe a suggestion of a date, go for a drink or a burger "would you like to meet me for a McD" etc to be honest guys know when your interested (most of time)if you smile at him he'll know!
social confidence is like a muscle the more you talk to people the easier it gets, get a job where you have to talk to people or volenteer somewhere.
if you really want to nuke fear of rejection, go into a shop, say a shoeshop and ask for fishermans thighboots, they will look at you odd but they will be polite, once yu leave you'll be on a high with adrenline (secret is to ask for stuff you know they will certainly not sell in various shops, this galvanises you against rejection after all a guy that says no to a date is nothing compared to asking for a bigmac in pizzahut or whatever, trust me i get my therapy clients to do this (the do prefer another town's shopping mall though) and it changes their life, feel the fear and do it anyway!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): using a tampon is tricky at first, but it soon becomes easy and stress free!
i started a few months ago - at first i found it almost impossible and wasnt getting it in at all. you say you finger yourself, think about the direction etc and use the tampon like a finger.
also, practise, like twice a day when you get your period, youll soon get the hang of it.
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